Rethink That.

Rethink That.

Why I’m Not “Missing” Anything.

What it means to desire differently.

Apr 07, 2025
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I’m not repressed.
Not traumatised.
Not broken.

I’m not waiting for someone to unlock a hidden well of desire I haven’t yet discovered.

I’ve opted out — not from love,
but from the performative game we were all taught to play.

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